It’s important to remember that grief is a natural, personal, and nonlinear journey. Sometimes we feel different emotions at different times, all at various intensities, which is okay. These unpredictable instances can be overwhelming, making it difficult to navigate our emotions. Self-care can help regulate our emotions, reduce stress and increase resilience during challenging times. It may not always be easy to prioritize self-care especially when we are coping with some form of loss. In this post, we cover how grief affects well-being, how self-care can help, and more.

How Grief Can Impact Our Well-Being

While grief can affect us in many ways, some examples include: 

• Sleep schedules, quality, and habits

• How you eat or stomach issues we experience  

• Frequency of headaches

• Trigger intense emotions such as sadness, anger, guilt, and anxiety 

• Concentration, memory, and decision-making.  

Why Does Self-Care Matter When Grieving? 

Self-care is crucial while navigating grief, as it can help to: 

• Promote a sense of calm by reducing stress and anxiety  

• Encourage healthy eating, exercising, and getting more sleep 

• Develop emotional resilience, enabling you to better cope with the challenges you face  

Gentle Reminders When Implementing Self-Care

Grieving is a process, and the following can help: 

• Reflect on what you need to feel supported and comforted.  

• Practice saying no to things that are lower on your priority list and fill your time with things that bring you joy. 

• Make time for these activities in your daily or weekly routine. Break tasks into smaller pieces and be kind to yourself as you work through these smaller goals.  

• Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for emotional support and guidance.  

• Explore ways to express your emotions in a healthy way! At the same time, be compassionate with yourself. Allow yourself to make mistakes, feel guilty and have bad days. 

Conclusion

Remember, grief is a journey that requires patience, kindness, and compassion. By prioritizing self-care and incorporating activities that are suited to your unique situation, you can better navigate the challenges of grief and foster a sense of healing and resilience. However big or small, finding acts of self-care that are suitable, feasible and effective can be a useful tool for your journey. Remember that what works for some may not work for all. Be patient with yourself and give yourself grace as you navigate what works best to support you during these times.  

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References

https://www.myfarewelling.com/article/the-journey-of-grief-understanding-its-non-linear-nature 

https://vocal.media/psyche/self-care-b1zz80zam 

https://www.hospiceandcommunitycare.org/wp-content/uploads/Extreme-Self-Care-on-Your-Grief-Journey.pdf